Guides
Guides to capturing a life story
Questions worth asking, gifts that mean something, and practical ways to record your family's stories while the people who lived them can still tell them.
Interview question packs
- Questions to Ask Your Mother About Her Life
Interview questions for your mother's whole life: who she was before you, the people she loved, the family and work that shaped her, and what she knows now.
- Questions to Ask Your Father About His Life
Interview questions built for fathers who answer in one word: boyhood, work, becoming a dad, and the things he keeps but never explains.
- Questions to Ask Your Grandmother About Her Childhood
Specific interview questions about a grandmother's childhood: the house she grew up in, her family, school days, and the world around her.
- Questions to Ask Your Grandfather About His Life
Questions that get a grandfather talking about growing up, work and service, important relationships, and a world that has changed.
- Questions to Ask Your Aging Parents
Questions adult children put off asking: your parents' childhoods, the relationships that shaped them, and family history they can help explain.
- Questions to Ask Grandparents About Family History
Family history questions for grandparents: the names, old towns, characters, and heirlooms, with room for the context behind them.
- Life Story Interview Questions (and How to Ask Them)
A working set of life story interview questions, era by era, plus how to run the interview so you get scenes and stories rather than a résumé.
How-to guides
- How to Record Your Parents' Life Story
A practical guide to recording your parents' life story: when to start, which format you'll sustain, and how to turn the recordings into a book.
- Recording Life Stories With a Parent Who Has Memory Loss
A practical, research-grounded guide to recording a parent's life story after a memory-loss or dementia diagnosis.
- Life story work: what the research says
Research on reminiscence therapy and life review, including depressive symptoms, life satisfaction, loneliness, and studies involving people with dementia.
- How to Write Your Mother's (or Father's) Biography
A practical step-by-step guide to writing your parent's life story, from gathering material through drafting and editing to a finished family biography.
- How to Write a Legacy Letter (Ethical Will)
What an ethical will is, what to put in a legacy letter, plus a structure checklist, template, and examples to write one your family will keep.
Gift guides
- Meaningful Gifts for Elderly Parents (That Aren't More Stuff)
Gift ideas for elderly parents who need nothing and want less: attention, recorded stories, practical help, and one thing only they can give back.
- Gifts for Grandparents Who Have Everything
Real gift ideas for grandparents who have everything: shared experiences, a biography of their own, small things done well, and what grandkids can give.